2020 has been an interesting year regarding the men from Craigslist I have met. I myself have used Craigslist and internet dating sites but haven’t found my soul mate. But, if I look back on the men I have met they all have provided me with insight as to what qualities I am looking for.
Barry lived 2 hours away in the country but he was awesome to talk to on the phone. We were both looking for the same thing out of a relationship although he was still not over his last relationship and made this very clear. But, what I got out of knowing him was that there are men who can express their feelings. The real hint that this wouldn’t work out was that he never heard of the pagers that restaurants hand out to let you know your table is ready. All, I thought to myself was how far out in the country do you live?
Tom lived in New York but I loved his Craigslist profile because we had so much in common. This was more of a fantasy relationship at first via email and the talking on the phone. Then reality set in when he wanted to have phone sex! No wonder he was writing women who lived in a different state.
Pete woke my heart up from a very long sleep. Still to this day I don’t understand why I felt the way I did about him because we only went out twice. He lost his wife about 6 months before we met. On our first date we went on his motorcycle for a couple hours and I had a blast. I felt a connection to him that I didn’t quite get. But, he ran away and I haven’t seen him since. Things that make you go hmmmm.
Jim was the first man I met that got the meaning of life and why we are all here. But, there was no chemistry what so ever. Enough said.
Billy was a very upfront, honest and a good looking guy. Honesty is very important to me and it was refreshing to communicate with him. But, when we met in person he was so judgmental and said whatever he was thinking. Hello, some things one needs to keep to themselves. He took the ability of express ones thoughts to a new level.
Together, all these men had qualities of what I’m looking for in a soul mate. What I can tell you is I know I’m getting closer to finding my soul mate. Although, I always have something going on and don’t use the Craiglist as my only dating tool it can be very interesting. Keep checking in to read more about the men in my life! I promise you wouldn’t be bored.
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There is always tomorrow!
My hope is for people from Craigslist to be able to enjoy their life regardless of what’s going on at the time. I have a close friend who has been married for over 10 years and they still don’t have any children. But, they have always wanted a family of their own. The thing is it never seems to be the right time. Why do people put off what they really want?
I think about the friends I know who put their lives on hold for one reason or another. I myself have fallen into this trap many times. My belief is that we are scared to go after our dreams because we may fail or it will take too much effort. It’s taken me awhile but I’m finally not making excuses and living my life to the fullest. I say if you want something go for it! It’s almost like putting off having children until your more financially stable. There is no magic here! One of my good friends has 3 kids who want for nothing yet money is always an issue. Both parents have to work in order provide for their children and they are HAPPY.
We really do need to live for today and not worry so much about tomorrow. The last thing I want is to have regrets about not going after my dreams. You can’t fail if you give it your all no matter what! You can just learn from it.